Saturday, May 17, 2008

Well, at least we have an answer.

Spot has been diagnosed with inoperable stomach cancer. I'm on vacation for a few days right now in Quebec with my cousin (scheduled long before we knew about this), so I'll keep this short, as I am tired and it's very late. I've never been in a position before where the only humane choice I could make for a beloved companion was euthanasia. I'll get to spend one more full day with her when I return before we bring her back to the vet next week to have her put to sleep. Or, to be blunt, put to death. It sucks. I cried many tears on the train yesterday after Derek told me, as did he, and I expect I will cry more, but I can't say I was surprised. I'm trying to stay cheerful before heading north tomorrow to visit with extended family. Time with friends and Marie-France, and some serious Montreal retail therapy today, have both helped. Still, thank you all for your kind support.

9 Comments:

Blogger turtlegirl76 said...

*huga* I'm so sorry.

7:55 AM  
Blogger Stickyfingers said...

:(
I was hoping for a much different answer.
I'm sure Spot has lead a pampered and fabulous life, with her doting humans. I know it's very difficult to let her go, but know that you *are* making the right choice in releasing her from this pain. Poor Kitty . . . Poor people.

Cry when you need to, but know that we are here for you. Always.

9:12 AM  
Blogger Trillian42 said...

Oh, honey. I'm so, so sorry.

9:37 AM  
Blogger Jen said...

Oh Lisa, I'm so sorry. I know that isn't the outcome you were hoping for. You ARE making the best choice for her though, difficult thought it is and will be. Know that you have many, many friends who love you and are thinking about you during this time. Like Stickyfingers said, we are always here for you.

3:58 PM  
Blogger Linz said...

Oh, Lisa. I am so so sorry to hear this.

*REALLY BIG HUGS*

4:04 PM  
Blogger Christine said...

I think that we're kinder to our pets than we are to each other. When our pets reach the stage where they no longer have "quality" of life, we can least relieve them of their suffering.

Having Mandy (the dog I had before Bandit) put to sleep, was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. After all, our pets are like furry, four-legged kids.

7:34 AM  
Blogger Kristen said...

We love you, Lisa. Condolences to you and Derek, we'll be thinking about you.

8:02 AM  
Blogger glittrgirl said...

So sorry to hear your sad news. I was going to tag you with something but it seems trite to do so now. Hope you are all OK.

9:23 AM  
Blogger ZantiMissKnit said...

I'm so sorry. I know exactly what you are going through.

9:17 AM  

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